The answer, OP, is you stop putting these damsels and dames on a pristine pedestal. Then they can never fall off and crash down to earth. We sometimes build things up in our heads like sex is so special. It's not. We build things up like women are so pure and pristine. They're not. Their butts stink and they make messes in the bathroom. And their inner thoughts are gross, thinking of things you'd never believe.
Sex is not special it is simply benis in bagina. No one cared for tens of thousands of years. People just fucked and didn't think about it. Now it's all like "me lady has doth been debased by a strange penis!"
Our penises literally evolved their shape to funnel the cum out of the vagina from the last guy who dumped in her. That took millions of years to develop. Think about that.